First Interaction

I delivered a Keynote speech to the population at Northern Illinois University.   During the Q & A session, an audience member asked:  ‘What are your biggest pet peeves when it comes to how people interact with you relative to a visible disability?’

This is not the first time this subject has been brought up.   In my travels, I have come across countless people.  Among those, I have heard many interesting greetings.  These introductions range from, ‘What the heck happened to you?  Can you walk?  Do you have a driver’s license to operate that thing?  How did you ‘earn’ that chair (This one was asked by a well known actor which will remain nameless)?

Some consider me a complex person when it comes to a myriad of aspects.   During a greeting of a new friend or acquaintance, I could not have a more simple philosophy.  I welcome a /hello’,  ‘what’s your name’ or all the way to ‘It’s nice to meet you.’

My suggestion is to keep it simple….:-)

FEAR NOT!!!!!